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dynamo_hunter_aSomething happened that just reminded of me something someone does here quite a lot.
When I go quiet...
I'm automatically pissed off at him.
Then he'll say things along the lines of "Oh you went quiet, I must've pissed you off didn't it? You're mad now. That's why you're not saying anything."
Another thing he somtimes does is...
"You went quiet... you're not interested so I'll shut up now."
He does that online too.
So... I guess when I go quiet... I'm either mad or not paying attention to him.
My mom does that too. "You're quiet, not in speaking terms. Are you angry at me?"
Sometimes,when I say things along the lines of "Uh huh, okay, oh" it's that I'm listening it's just I don't really wanna talk back. That sorta thing. I enjoy the company just don't wanna say much. Guess that's just a me thing.
How come if I go quiet... people automatically think I'm angry or not listening?
Sometimes things don't interest me, but I listen just because it's fun to be around that person even though it's something I dont' reallly wanna hear at the moment. Yeah, must just be a me thing.
Another me thing would be to leave when I make someone upset. Call it my weird logic but if something upsets you it makes sense sorta to get rid of that thing that's upsetting you for a bit and talk it out later. I'm kinda stupid that way.
*sighs*
I have so many faults I need to improve on. I might end up changing alot of how I already am, but that'll be good in the end, won't it?
Maybe then I won't make so many people angry or upset.
****
Looking at things now I realize I was at fault again.
._. For not sounding interested, for sounding bored, for not wanting to sound hear about things. Then I was also at fault for deciding to leave. I could've attempted to make things better but I didn't, was taking the 'easy' way out and was going to leave someone upset and hanging. Bleh, stupid me.
When I go quiet...
I'm automatically pissed off at him.
Then he'll say things along the lines of "Oh you went quiet, I must've pissed you off didn't it? You're mad now. That's why you're not saying anything."
Another thing he somtimes does is...
"You went quiet... you're not interested so I'll shut up now."
He does that online too.
So... I guess when I go quiet... I'm either mad or not paying attention to him.
My mom does that too. "You're quiet, not in speaking terms. Are you angry at me?"
Sometimes,when I say things along the lines of "Uh huh, okay, oh" it's that I'm listening it's just I don't really wanna talk back. That sorta thing. I enjoy the company just don't wanna say much. Guess that's just a me thing.
How come if I go quiet... people automatically think I'm angry or not listening?
Sometimes things don't interest me, but I listen just because it's fun to be around that person even though it's something I dont' reallly wanna hear at the moment. Yeah, must just be a me thing.
Another me thing would be to leave when I make someone upset. Call it my weird logic but if something upsets you it makes sense sorta to get rid of that thing that's upsetting you for a bit and talk it out later. I'm kinda stupid that way.
*sighs*
I have so many faults I need to improve on. I might end up changing alot of how I already am, but that'll be good in the end, won't it?
Maybe then I won't make so many people angry or upset.
****
Looking at things now I realize I was at fault again.
._. For not sounding interested, for sounding bored, for not wanting to sound hear about things. Then I was also at fault for deciding to leave. I could've attempted to make things better but I didn't, was taking the 'easy' way out and was going to leave someone upset and hanging. Bleh, stupid me.
